so i threw a surprise party fo a friend of mine recently and one of the guests comes up to me and says,  look at you your so skinny, your so tiny. And I without thinking go into my usual psuedo apology "yeah all the women in my family are small, i eat all the time, i did gain six lbs this year"  blah blah blah,  what i really want to say is thanks i'm glad to have such a fantastic body, but without having guilt over the other womens own body self esteem issues.  why is it ok for women to point out and critisize me because i'm small i wouldn't go up to a heavy women and say wow you are so big.  let me put you on the spot for looking the way you do!!!!  what the hell.  from now on i'm just going to say thanks I like it that way!